For many parents, the approaching Christmas season brings more stress than joy.

As soon as Halloween candy starts leaving the shelves, Christmas displays roll in with reminders of all we need to plan, do, and buy to make yuletide magic. Traditions meant to express a spirit of giving and gathering turn into festive obligations packed into a short few weeks leading up to the grand finale on December 25.

With each canceled event, our understanding of what matters grows stronger. Is home holding us captive or sharpening our focus?

Five minutes after getting to Julie’s house, I told her, “If your water breaks, we need to get in the car and go.” Two contractions later she said, “Oh, there goes my water.” We were in for a wild ride.

As the baby was coming, I distinctly remembered the things they had said: Call ahead to the hospital! Support the baby! Release the cord from around the neck! Don't mess with the placenta!

Whenever you get it done, it’s helpful to have a streamlined list compiled by parents who have lived and learned.

These tangible comfort measures enhance relaxation, but their main purpose is to woo our VIP companions: strength, courage, and confidence.